How Strong Your Relationship — Relationship Self Assessment
We humans are defined by our ability to love and we all crave to be loved by all. However, the love quotients in a relationship are not the mechanical factors that can be imported at will or desire alone; it requires to be cultivated with the inputs and ingredients of passion, perceptions, emotions and feelings. All of us are unique and have distinct attributes and thought processes that define and portray our personality before the others in society. Only when our persona and attributes are liked by others, then we receive love and affection of others.
Ironically, in the current age of high materialism when we all are shining more and better in our individual lives, we also feel difficulty in living a more satisfied life especially due to love crunches in our relations. These crunches have become more prominent in some of the most cherished relations like the marriage. Relationship expert counsel self analysis for a better and more satisfying love life, especially among the life partners. Let’s find out why self analysis is significant in resurrecting the love indices in the life of the individual seeker.
What is self analysis?
Self analysis is the task taken up by the person for discovering of ‘self’ and more particularly the attributes, inclinations, orientations, perceptions and overall description of self. It is rather ironical that while we all are very much aware of our likes & dislikes and thoughts & opinions, most of us fail to analyze as how these are perceived by the others. It is not necessary that what we like or hold in our thought are equally liked by the other; courtesy to the uniqueness of all of us as stated above. Seldom do we care about how we are being perceived and how some of our habits and orientations affect our life and relation with others. Self analysis, therefore, is an attempt to find out what we are and what good or bad qualities are possessed by us. Remember that, it is not necessary that any attribute that is perceived as bad by someone is actually bad; this may depend upon the perception of the other person.
How does self analysis help us in our love relations?
When a person is aware of his habits, qualities and attributes, then it becomes very easy for him/her to find out the correlations that affect the life. It should be stated that none of individual facets of one’s personality remain unconnected and makes its contribution in one or the other manner. Every quality and opinion/perception of the individual, intrinsically goes on to generate a life situation and those unaware of them, always wonder how to deal with the emergent conditions in any relation as they simply don’t know the causes of it. On the other hand, the persons who have taken up their self analysis always have the knowledge of the emerging circumstances and in particular the responses they face in their relations (say marriage). It is also a fact that the more intimate the relation, more robust players, the personal attributes of the person becomes to govern the relationship between the two. Marriage is a fine example of the most complex and generic bonding that simply cannot be defined through fewer parameters; there are unfathomable depths and dimensions involved therein.
Dedicated maneuvering and life conditioning
The foremost advantage of self analysis is that it allows the person to carry on dynamic conditioning of the life situations by bringing about behavioral changes in self. This transforms into utmost significance as for our love relations which are complex and intricate; as any inherent rigidities could ruin the fabric of these. As already stated that more intimate relations have more intricate parameters, and hence the need to remain active and responsive as for their nurturing. Love quotients would never plunge down when this conditioning is carried out by both the partners and this is possible only when the two are aware. Self analysis, therefore assists in making the person aware; subsequently letting him/her know as what irritates and then work out upon those inconsistencies through life and behavior conditioning.
Live your love life unaberrated!
The love life becomes more satisfying when there is no place for antipathies towards each other and these antipathies have to be weeded by self alone! So live a more satisfactory love like by making out self assessments and if you wish to have some expert assistance than the e-guide available at the web portal- http://magicofmakingupcourse.com/presentation_new/ would be good to depend upon. You can look out the objective means listed out there for finer self assessments and analyses.
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